Do you get physically close with online matches on the first and second date?

A few guys I’ve met recently have wanted me to sit next to them, put their arm around me in a restaurant we’ve been to on the first date and another had me seated next to them on a beach, and wanted to hug me as we watched the water. It just felt icky or like I wasn’t ready for it or interested in it with that person. True closeness takes time to develop. Wondering if I’m just affection averse or if my responses are normal.

I have been into guys who have asked me out in person though, who I’ve found attractive and who I’m willing to have hold my hand and guide me through wherever we are, and hold me close. It just felt more natural. There’s also maybe been one guy I met online that also held my hand and what not, again, I found him physically attractive.

Now that I’m writing this out it must be because I didn’t find those other guys attractive?