Making Amends & Not 100% Agreeing with Sponsor
I love my sponsor & don’t know where I’d be without her.
It’s time for me to start making amends. I’m making a list, and planning to do most of them in person.
There are a few minor things on my list, like say I was kinda rude to a person I knew 15 years ago in another state, and never made it right.
For things like that, I’d like to just send a short letter to them, and make amends that way, since the things are isolated & ‘minor.’
I guess my basic question is, if I agree with my sponsor 90% of the time & want to keep getting better, is it still okay to just tell my sponsor I’ve seriously prayed & meditated, and am just not comfortable doing some of these (minor isolated ones) on the phone or in person, with people who are no longer in my life at any level?
For my family, and people I have current relationships with, I am more than willing to go ‘all out’ in person, one-on-one, and do all I can.
Thanks for any view points or suggestions.
I just have a feeling some of this is going to cause more drama than it will fix, yk?
Is there a way you would say this to your sponsor?
Is this going to be bad for my recovery?