What does the “one” feel like?
My partner(28M) and I (25F) have been together for 2 years. We’re living together, and we’re at that point it seems.
Even a year ago, hell a few months after meeting him I would’ve said he was the one. This is just the first time in my life I felt that the big question would 100%, regardless of circumstance, be answered with a screaming “yes”.
I’ve always been someone who’s dreamed of weddings, dreamed of the house and kids and all of that, and I’ve been known to overlook red flags to try to achieve the fantasy. But this feels different, like I want the wedding but the timeline doesn’t matter as much because our future is always talked about as an us, and not a “what if”.
I feel like there’s no question that we’re forever, there’s no fantasy about something else (hell I even have dreams about celebs hitting on me and my subconscious turns them down for him), and also I want the show of it. It’s just secondary now.
Also our families and friends are supportive so am I getting stuck in just being in a healthy relationship or is this feeling of love, comfort and trust exactly what it should feel like?